the ethical slut

Cover image of 'The Ethical Slut, Third Edition', a comprehensive guide to ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships, released on August 15, 2017.
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The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Freedoms in Sex and Love” (Third Edition)

by Janet W. Hardy (Author), Dossie Easton (Author)

”The Ethical Slut” by Janet. W Hardy is the perfect place to start when learning about polyamory and non-monogamous relationships. Also known as “The Poly Bible” it’s a practical and informative guide to everything you need to know about getting it on with multiple people, ethically. Originally published in 1997, this seminal work has provided guidance and inspiration for almost two decades. Inside you’ll find insights on love, sex and intimacy outside the boundaries of conventional relationships. 

The latest edition has been updated to reflect what the modern polyamorous lover needs to know about the sexualities and identities of those they may encounter. The new content covers topics like asexuality, sex workers, LGBTQ+ and nonbinary gender identities. Anyone exploring or active in non-traditional relationships will have a lot to learn from this book. 

Inside you’ll also find interviews with poly millennials and tributes to the pioneers of polyamory. The focus is on learning what non traditional relationships have looked like and what they look like now. This helps lay the groundwork for healthy non monogamous relationships in our modern day and age. You’ll also be introduced to concepts like conflict resolution, interpersonal dynamics, and a wide range of nontraditional relationship structures. This all promotes a better understanding of emotional honesty, safer sex practices, and open communication. 

All in all, this book is a great jumping off point for anyone curious about what it means to be polyamorous or having a non traditional relationship. It focuses on educating and provides novel tools for those that are looking to step outside the conventional romantic and sexual structures.  


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